Act like a man but think like a woman
Fellas
Having trouble understanding females? Dont know how they think, or why they do the things that they do?
Well this is the post for you.
I'm not going to pretend that i know everything about how women think. Or that i'm some kind of relationship guru. But I do know a little bit about the kind of girl i'm attracted too.
I love strong women. Meek, weak-willed women do not appeal to me in the least bit. I need a woman who will go to war with me, and drag my black ass out alive.
So, if you're attracted to the same type of women, follow the guidelines i'm about to lay out to keep your woman happy, and hopefully keep you alive.
1. Appreciation: Cheesy is actually good sometimes
Say you have a woman who is everything you've ever wanted; say that you love her more than life itself. Thats all well and good. Really, I mean that.
But we're men. Sometimes we forget to show our women how much we love and appreciate them for all that they do for us.
You realllly dont want to do that shit.
The trick is to always look for little ways to keep your lady happy. It doesnt always take diamonds, or expensive gifts; all it takes is a little creativity, ingenuity, and the knowledge of what your woman finds sweet. I have a friend that once spelled his lady's name out in christmas lights, on a chain link fence attached to an overpass. So every time someone drove under that overpass, they saw his ladies name, with a heart right next to it.
Is that cheesy as hell?
Yes it is.
But did he get a lot of nookie because of it?
You bet your sweet ass he did.
The moral of that little story is that the knowledge of what your lady finds slightly cheesy(but still romantic) can go a long way in helping you keep her happy.
2. Variety, Shock, and Awe
Females love surprises. They love spontaneity. They love it when you make them feel like they're special enough to pull some crazy stunt that only they would love. Once again, this doesnt require a mass amount of cash, or fancy diamonds. It just requires effort and ingenuity. Instead of taking her out to dinner every thurs., mix it up some. Take her cliff diving or some shit like that. Go to her house one night and cook for her, completely out of the blue. Its the little things that keep women happy.
3.Jealousy, Insecurity, and Patience
Women can be jealous, insecure creatures.
Wow. There's the shock of the damn century.
There's nothing worse than being a good man who does all the right things, but is still hounded unmercifully for no reason anyway. You want to stop it? You have to make her feel secure.
This is where the beauty of the first two guidelines above comes in. By making sure she knows that she is appreciated, and by surprising her and making her feel special, you actually make her feel secure, which can get her off of your back. Its kind of like killing two birds with one stone.
Also, dont cheat on her. That shit can help too.
4. Girlfriend comes first
This one is going to be very quick and simple.
We're men. We like hanging out with our boys. But if time with your lady conflicts with time with your boys, SHE COMES FIRST. I dont think i have to remind you that your lady can do things that your can't (or shouldnt). Thats it. Its that simple. Sacrifice time with the boys once in awhile and show your lady that you actually give a damn.
5. She is special
As men, we're taught never to be emotional. Emotion makes you a bitch. Emotion makes you weak. Therefore we have a real problem telling the women that we have how much we love and respect them.
Here's the thing; it doesnt make you a bitch if you tell your woman that you love her. It doesnt make you a bitch if you tell your woman that she's the most beautiful thing in world. It doesnt make you a bitch if you tell her how special she is every opportunity that you get. In fact, it makes you a man. Because that's how a man treats a woman. Sharing feelings might be difficult at first, but the look on her face when you tell her makes it worth it.
End
These were just five quick guidelines; there are MILLIONS more. Hopefully mine are of some use to you.
Are they hard work to follow? Yes. Is it alot of time and effort involved? Yes.
But believe me if you find that good woman, that strong woman, that ride or die, these guidelines can help you keep her. They're are very few of those women left unfortunately, and If you're willing to put in the time an effort, you'll be just fine. If not, cut her loose and send her my way. I could use a woman like that
Having trouble understanding females? Dont know how they think, or why they do the things that they do?
Well this is the post for you.
I'm not going to pretend that i know everything about how women think. Or that i'm some kind of relationship guru. But I do know a little bit about the kind of girl i'm attracted too.
I love strong women. Meek, weak-willed women do not appeal to me in the least bit. I need a woman who will go to war with me, and drag my black ass out alive.
So, if you're attracted to the same type of women, follow the guidelines i'm about to lay out to keep your woman happy, and hopefully keep you alive.
1. Appreciation: Cheesy is actually good sometimes
Say you have a woman who is everything you've ever wanted; say that you love her more than life itself. Thats all well and good. Really, I mean that.
But we're men. Sometimes we forget to show our women how much we love and appreciate them for all that they do for us.
You realllly dont want to do that shit.
The trick is to always look for little ways to keep your lady happy. It doesnt always take diamonds, or expensive gifts; all it takes is a little creativity, ingenuity, and the knowledge of what your woman finds sweet. I have a friend that once spelled his lady's name out in christmas lights, on a chain link fence attached to an overpass. So every time someone drove under that overpass, they saw his ladies name, with a heart right next to it.
Is that cheesy as hell?
Yes it is.
But did he get a lot of nookie because of it?
You bet your sweet ass he did.
The moral of that little story is that the knowledge of what your lady finds slightly cheesy(but still romantic) can go a long way in helping you keep her happy.
2. Variety, Shock, and Awe
Females love surprises. They love spontaneity. They love it when you make them feel like they're special enough to pull some crazy stunt that only they would love. Once again, this doesnt require a mass amount of cash, or fancy diamonds. It just requires effort and ingenuity. Instead of taking her out to dinner every thurs., mix it up some. Take her cliff diving or some shit like that. Go to her house one night and cook for her, completely out of the blue. Its the little things that keep women happy.
3.Jealousy, Insecurity, and Patience
Women can be jealous, insecure creatures.
Wow. There's the shock of the damn century.
There's nothing worse than being a good man who does all the right things, but is still hounded unmercifully for no reason anyway. You want to stop it? You have to make her feel secure.
This is where the beauty of the first two guidelines above comes in. By making sure she knows that she is appreciated, and by surprising her and making her feel special, you actually make her feel secure, which can get her off of your back. Its kind of like killing two birds with one stone.
Also, dont cheat on her. That shit can help too.
4. Girlfriend comes first
This one is going to be very quick and simple.
We're men. We like hanging out with our boys. But if time with your lady conflicts with time with your boys, SHE COMES FIRST. I dont think i have to remind you that your lady can do things that your can't (or shouldnt). Thats it. Its that simple. Sacrifice time with the boys once in awhile and show your lady that you actually give a damn.
5. She is special
As men, we're taught never to be emotional. Emotion makes you a bitch. Emotion makes you weak. Therefore we have a real problem telling the women that we have how much we love and respect them.
Here's the thing; it doesnt make you a bitch if you tell your woman that you love her. It doesnt make you a bitch if you tell your woman that she's the most beautiful thing in world. It doesnt make you a bitch if you tell her how special she is every opportunity that you get. In fact, it makes you a man. Because that's how a man treats a woman. Sharing feelings might be difficult at first, but the look on her face when you tell her makes it worth it.
End
These were just five quick guidelines; there are MILLIONS more. Hopefully mine are of some use to you.
Are they hard work to follow? Yes. Is it alot of time and effort involved? Yes.
But believe me if you find that good woman, that strong woman, that ride or die, these guidelines can help you keep her. They're are very few of those women left unfortunately, and If you're willing to put in the time an effort, you'll be just fine. If not, cut her loose and send her my way. I could use a woman like that
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