"A man haunted by his past cannot move forward no matter the lessons he has learned."
You are supposed to learn from your mistakes, and your past not have it rule your future. I've noticed people are taking the baggage that they got from their previous relationships and carrying them into the new one. What they are failing to realize what you "learned" from the last relationship is just that a lesson not a literal road map to follow in your new one. Life is about trial and error, just because you were hurt last time doesn't mean you will be hurt this time. The entire situation is different (unless you are one the retards who hopped right back into a bad relationship with the same person, if thats the case kill yourself because your genetic make-up should never ever be passed down) the only constant in every different relationship is you! So what make everything that much more difficult and change who you are as a person? I've been the one hurt, I've been ready to cash it all in while hoping my friends and family would be ok with a check, but no matter how bad it got I could never change who am as a person. I go in like nothing bad ever happened to me, it's not that I haven't learned from the past it's more like I recognize my past as just that, my past. Take what you learned from the bad and use it to help your present and future. Sheltering yourself from the bad that may come prevents you from fully enjoying what you have infront of you. It's like skateboarding, you don't give up after you bust your ass. You get up put a fucking helmet on and try same shit again. I mean you're not gonna be around for ever so make the most of it, I'm not saying to not be cautious but I'm saying there is a thin line between caution and fear.
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