Congratulations ladies! Your a bitch, a slut, and a dumbass

One day I woke up and realized that some time while I was asleep the world had changed on me. A lot of women have lost their self respect. You would think that I would blame men for some of this ignorant behavior that has recently become acceptable in today's society but I don't. I blame women.

I cannot stand to see a woman complain about the way she is being treated by some of these guys. Do not blame them; blame yourself. How can you expect to be treated like a queen when you come running to a guy who whistles you over like you are some kind of poodle or pomeranian puppy?

You are not a dog. Why do you answer to that?

How are you going to complain because he is treating you like a hoe when you slept with the entire crew?

How are you going to complain about the way he talks to you when you are answering to, "Eh ma wats up"?

I had a guy message me a couple days ago and he said, "Aye girl wats up witchya wen you going to give me dat number?" Do you know what I said to him? I told him that I do not give my number out to guys I don't know and I especially don't give it out to guys who approach me with a, "What's up ma". I told him that is not the way you are supposed to respectively approach a lady and do you know what he told me in response? "I'm sorry, I am very respectable and I would like to get to know you so i'm going to leave you my number if you ever want to talk."

Why go through all the formalities if you can just skip the whole process, demand it, and get it anyways?

Another guy constantly messaged me with a, "Whats up wit ya". One day he asked me why I never respond and I told him thats not the way you're supposed to talk to me. He said, "How about whats up 'Knox' " I said, "No". Then, after a few more tries I felt were also unacceptable, he said, "Hello beautiful how are you?" To which I gladly responded. Every time he messaged me after that it was always respectful.

You see its not that these guys are disrespectful; They know how to talk to a lady, its that you are letting them get away with it and they have no reason or motivation to change their habits and I don't blame them.

You are calling yourself and other women bitches and hoes.
You are answering to the whistles and the noises.
You are letting him disrespect you in front of his boys.
You are in the club talking about, "Ehhh!!! Thats my song!" When "Ass Ass Ass" comes on, and going to your knees like you don't have any got damn sense and now complaining about why you are being treated the way you are???

You need to remember that you are a woman who deserves respect but you will only get respect if you give it, treat yourself with respect, and tolerate nothing less.

Do better ladies. Do better.