"I trust you. It's her i don't trust"
I'm 22 years old. I've been in 6 relationships in my life. In two of those relationships there was a phrase that the 2 young ladies loved to use; the phrase being "I trust you, i really do. But its the girls around you that i dont trust"
Really? Seriously?
Women that say this fall into one of two categories. They're either blatant liars, of they're liars who dont know that they're liars. The first category is easy; they dont trust you, and they know they dont, but they lie to you anyway. Why they lie is beyond me but its whatever
The second, and far more complicated category, are the beautiful women who dont know that they're liars. Your girlfriend may truly believe that she completely trusts YOU, but that she doesnt trust a particular female(or females) around you. Lets examine that for a second shall we?
Why doesnt your girlfriend trust that female? Because she thinks that that female is going to use her....wiles, to either get you to cheat, or leave her completely. Which means that your girl thinks that you're mentally weak, and not strong enough to fight off the advances of a woman who is not her. Which means that she REALLY DOESNT trust you. She just doesnt know it, or cant realize it.
My philosophy on relationships is simple. Im not, nor have i ever been, the jealous type. Since i was sixteen, i havent necessarily been the trusting type either. So if i'm in a relationship with you, then you must've given me a great reason to trust you. And if i trust you, i'm not worried about some other guy flirting with you. Quite frankly, i dont give a damn.The reason being, if i trust you, then what do i have to worry about? Guys can flirt with you until they're blue in the face, but i trust you not cheat or do anything dumb. What do i have to worry about?
Fellas, the same should apply to your lady. If you're a good man, and you've given her no reason not to trust you, she shouldnt be worried about another females. If she trusted you completely she wouldnt be worried about what any of other female did, because she trusts you to be strong enough and good enough to withstand the advances of any other female.
Really? Seriously?
Women that say this fall into one of two categories. They're either blatant liars, of they're liars who dont know that they're liars. The first category is easy; they dont trust you, and they know they dont, but they lie to you anyway. Why they lie is beyond me but its whatever
The second, and far more complicated category, are the beautiful women who dont know that they're liars. Your girlfriend may truly believe that she completely trusts YOU, but that she doesnt trust a particular female(or females) around you. Lets examine that for a second shall we?
Why doesnt your girlfriend trust that female? Because she thinks that that female is going to use her....wiles, to either get you to cheat, or leave her completely. Which means that your girl thinks that you're mentally weak, and not strong enough to fight off the advances of a woman who is not her. Which means that she REALLY DOESNT trust you. She just doesnt know it, or cant realize it.
My philosophy on relationships is simple. Im not, nor have i ever been, the jealous type. Since i was sixteen, i havent necessarily been the trusting type either. So if i'm in a relationship with you, then you must've given me a great reason to trust you. And if i trust you, i'm not worried about some other guy flirting with you. Quite frankly, i dont give a damn.The reason being, if i trust you, then what do i have to worry about? Guys can flirt with you until they're blue in the face, but i trust you not cheat or do anything dumb. What do i have to worry about?
Fellas, the same should apply to your lady. If you're a good man, and you've given her no reason not to trust you, she shouldnt be worried about another females. If she trusted you completely she wouldnt be worried about what any of other female did, because she trusts you to be strong enough and good enough to withstand the advances of any other female.
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