Open Your Damn Mouth

I would like to move on from the current, "Jealousy" trend and hop to what is said to be the most important key to every relationship: Communication

Personally, I believe that so much shit could be solved if people just opened their mouthes and spoke more often. Think about it. Do you know how many hearts could be left intact if men and women opened their damn mouthes and just told his or her significant other that it just isn't working out? Lets break down this whole situation from the beginning, apply some communication tactics, and see if we can change this whole scenario shall we? 

Obviously something is going wrong in your relationship that is making you feel as if you need to cheat on your significant other. Before it gets to that breaking point you need to Communicate---OYDM (Open Your Damn Mouth). That person has the right to be given the chance to fix whatever is wrong. You need to OYDM and tell them what the problem is. Not enough sex? OYDM. Not enough excitement? OYDM. Has the relationship just suddenly become boring? OYDM. You cannot expect anybody to fix anything if they don't even know anything is wrong.

Now a lot of ladies tend to be bad at Communication when it comes to problems. Women love to talk about nonchalant things but sometimes, when it comes to talking about problems they're having, they don't. I, myself, am guilty of this and looking back I regret not talking. You see some women think that men can miraculously read their minds. Let me tell you something: THEY CAN'T. Not only can they not read your mind but most of the time when a woman is mad about something it already went over the man's head an hour ago. They are not worried about it anymore but your still upset so you just want to give him the silent treatment. The silent treatment doesn't work! Men will ask you what is wrong one time. If you don't take that opportunity to speak up they are not about to keep hassling you. You need to OYDM. Again, no one can fix anything if they don't know anything is wrong. Did he accidentally look at another girl wrong? OYDM. Did he unintentionally say something that hurt your feelings? OYDM. Have a problem with something he's doing? OYDM.

If something is wrong in your relationship you guys need to OYDM. Seriously. Close mouthes don't get fed and they sure as hell don't get shit fixed. If that person truly cares about you they will try to fix whatever is wrong and if they at least try to make an effort they're a keeper. They're taking what you say seriously and trying to fix the problem. If you tell someone something is bothering you or upsetting and they don't, well, you don't need to be in a relationship with that person.